Ladies I’m just putting this word of advice out there that took me much longer than it should have. If you feel like you’re making eye contact with the person performing on stage, you most certainly are. They are making eyes back at you just as much as you are them. Go for it, you’re babin out there.
So turns out going by yourself to shows is neither pathetic nor sad. In the situation your best friend there is the music, and you two have a lot of catching up to do.